Russian dating - pros and contras

Today in Internet there are millions of dating sites, which offer Russian dating service. It is conditional on difficult demographic and economic situation at the territory of ex Soviet Union. Women population size significantly exceeds men population size: 2 men are due to 10 women. Moreover, Russian men think marriage is a burden, which requires much money, time; you must sacrifice your career, future in favour of wife and children. Therefore Russian men are not such responsible and prefer short-time relations or long-time relations without any liability. In Russia and Ukraine there are many divorces.

Therefore Russian women have to look for a husband abroad. In contrast to men, Russian girls are very responsible in majority cases, they want to create family and have children. Russian women are good house keepers and they are devoted to their husband and children.

Many American and European men married Russian women for last twenty years and maybe you could observe their happy or unhappy life. All people are different and their destinies are diverse too. Some men hoped to find a photo model, who speaks 5 languages and at the same time she is a good wife, who enjoys life in poverty. Naturally, such dreams were destroyed. Other men made objective demands to Russian girls, but views of these men didn't coincide with opinions of some women.

But another part of European and American men tried Russian dating service and found their life partners among Russian women. They are happy now. They met their life partners, have real family and bring up their own children.
Now exist as followers, as opponents of Russian dating.

Arguments contras Russian dating are:

• All Russian women are scammers. Unfortunately, in online dating service (not only Russian dating) there are some people (as men, as women), who do fraud and swindle out of clients' money. But now owners of online dating sites, who provide good service, do all to avoid scammers in their databases. Of owner of dating site wants to protect his clients from scammers, he/she employs antiscam experts, who create soft, programs to avoid and reveal scammers. And these programs are improved permanently. Therefore we suggest you to select carefully online dating site. And if you think certain girl is scammer - inform support about it. Don't pay money, if some woman asks you to support her economically.
• Online relations can not become real relations. Undoubtedly, among people, who begin online relations there some individuals, which don't get ready for serious relations. They only want to chat and make new acquaintances. But other part of people, who look for their life partner, are ready for real emotions, serious relationship. Therefore we suggest you to look over many profiles of Russian women, write letters to some of them for increasing your chances to meet your real life.
• Majority of Russian dating sites in their database have fictive profiles of Russian women and these girls don't exist in real life. To verify it is very easy. For example, you selected a girl, but she isn't never online on this site; she doesn't place new photos on site ( she has one - three photos, but even though you ask her to show her other photos, she doesn't do it); you ask her telephone number, but she doesn't give it to you, or she gives you non-existent number, etc. All these signs indicate in database of this site there are non-existent in real life girls. Delete your profile from this site.
• Russian women want to marry a European or American man to have visa, Green card, settle down abroad and after that they abandon their husbands. We are all alive people and we all possess right to make error. You can understand, even though you will meet a woman offline, you can marry, you can have long-run relations and you can leave each other after two weeks too. Online relations are the same as offline relationship. During your online relations be careful, watchful, use psychological assistance (if it is on the site), correctly evaluate your and her chances and qualities.

Arguments pros Russian dating are:

• Trying Russian dating service you have more chances to meet your life partner, than you will do it without Internet, in your own city. It is true. You can be lonely in your own city, but you can meet your loved woman from another city or country. For example, among Russian or Ukrainian women.
• Russian women are more womanly and family oriented that other European and American women. No comments. It's really true. And you will see it.
• Many Russian dating sites work honestly and in their database there are real existed Russian girls. It's true too. You can learn to select right Russian dating site.

Certainly, you and only you can decide try Russian dating or not try. But remember - if you decide pro Russian dating, you will increase your chances to meet your wife, have children and live with them together happily all your life.